What happens when you're in your 30s, trying to put yourself out there, find new hobbies, trust God's timing, and somehow still make it home at a reasonable hour?
In this episode of herspective, Jillian and Drey are trading the heavy conversations for a little laughter, life updates, and some much-needed girl talk. Because sometimes life in your 30s is less about having everything figured out and more about figuring out where people your age actually hang out.
After a birthday weekend in Nashville that didn't exactly go according to plan, Jillian is left wondering where all the single men in their 30s are hiding, while Drey is convinced that finding love might require a little more effort than standing in the darkest corner of a bar and waiting for divine intervention.
Meanwhile, wedding planning is officially underway, new hobbies are calling, and both women are realizing how easy it is to get caught up in the routines of adulthood. Between work, responsibilities, relationships, and everyday life, making time for the things that bring you joy and help you feel like yourself can become an unexpected challenge.
But underneath the laughs and questionable nightlife recommendations is a familiar conversation about faith, surrender, and the tension between trusting God's timing and taking an active role in creating the life you want.
How much should we be doing ourselves, and how much should we be leaving in God's hands?
From dating app sabbaticals and kickboxing aspirations to wedding dresses, friendship disagreements, and the desire for deeper spiritual connection, this episode is a reminder that even when life is good, there's still room to want more.
Why listen?
Because navigating your 30s can be a strange combination of feeling settled in some areas of life and completely lost in others. Whether you're single, engaged, married, searching for a new hobby, or simply trying to reconnect with yourself outside of your responsibilities, there's something comforting about knowing you're not the only one figuring it out as you go.
Grab your coffee, pour a glass of wine, or settle in for a walk. This one's just two best friends talking about life, love, faith, and everything in between.